Really Huge Bugs

Why is it so easy to let people ruin what God has given us? God gives us special moments and then in one conversation, those moments get ruined by what people think and see and their insights and opinions. Don't get me wrong, I am glad to hear others ideas on important decisions but still. It kind of sucks that what other people think can so readily affect how we feel. And really, the only thing that should matter is what God tells us, right? Of course, because people are stupid and make decisions based on human needs and God is perfect. And yet it is so easy for others to get into our heads and sometimes make our decisions for us. I have a lot to pray about at the moment and I hate that I have let others' opinions affect me so much. It is one thing to appreciate the advice and mull it over. It is another thing entirely to let it block out what God is saying. I think I need some Bible time. And just so you know, if you read this and think it's about you let me just say that any advice slash insight given is appreciated. I just think too much.